What Teenage Son Needs to See You Do: Father-Son Crisis Collision
Key Takeaways When fathers and teenage sons simultaneously experience identity crises, the collision can create chaos unless dad models healthy self-reflection instead of destructive behavior The BOOM phase (Becoming One's Own Man) between ages 33-40 often mirrors a teenager's own quest for identity, creating parallel internal struggles in the same household Fathers who externalize their midlife crisis through affairs or impulsive decisions teach their sons that running away is the answer to internal conflict Professional help-seeking and family inclusion in life re-evaluation demonstrate emotional intelligence and problem-solving skills your son will carry into adulthood Your midlife crisis can become your son's greatest leadership lesson when handled with intentional self-awareness The teenage years bring enough turmoil without adding a father's midlife crisis to the mix. Yet this collision happens more often than most families realize, creating a perfect storm of ide...